Get My Wife Back
You've come to the stark and painful realization that a divorce is just not what you wanted. You and your wife are like strangers to one another now and it's causing you nothing but unending stress and emotional pain. You miss her like crazy. You just want things to be back to the way they used to be, right? Remember when she loved you and your life together was everything you both wanted?
It's nothing like that now but that doesn't mean there isn't a thoughtful way to change things. Who says that you have to spend the remainder of your life without the woman you love? Maybe you two thought that a divorce was the right approach or perhaps you believed that giving in to her request to separate would result in you two eventually finding your way back to one another. Unfortunately, up to this point, none of that has happened. Your wife wants little to do with you and your certain that there's little you can do to change that. You're wrong.
Before you decide that you have to give up on your wife for good you have to think about how much she loved you at one time. It wasn't always this difficult. When you two first met, she couldn't get enough of you, she gladly accepted your marriage proposal and she was happy and satisfied with the marriage for years. You can recapture that again if you put some effort into it and show your wife that you still believe, deep within your heart, that she's the woman for you.
Begin by telling her how deeply sorry you are that the marriage failed. You may not be fully or even partially responsible for the split, in your eyes, but your wife may see it very differently. Sadly, many couples never discuss their broken marriage until after the fact and once they do they both realize that they contributed to the decline of the emotional bond without even realizing it. Make it clear to your wife that you regret that the marriage failed and that you still have feelings for her. At this point, depending on the state of your relationship right now, it may not be prudent to tell your wife that you can't live without her. That may be putting too much pressure on her which is something you absolutely don't want to be doing. Most men don't fully understand the right approach they need to take to rebuild their failed marriage. They think that if they present their wife with flowers or gifts that everything that happened in the past will be forgotten. That's not the approach that you want to take. Right now your greatest ally is insight. Insight into what your wife needs and wants from you. It's actually very different than what you may think she needs or wants.
Making your wife love you again and want to be with you is very possible. In fact, you can have a stronger, more loving and closer marriage than you ever thought possible. The key is learning what specific triggers you need to press within your wife's heart and mind to get her to need you again just as much as you need her.
You've come to the stark and painful realization that a divorce is just not what you wanted. You and your wife are like strangers to one another now and it's causing you nothing but unending stress and emotional pain. You miss her like crazy. You just want things to be back to the way they used to be, right? Remember when she loved you and your life together was everything you both wanted?
It's nothing like that now but that doesn't mean there isn't a thoughtful way to change things. Who says that you have to spend the remainder of your life without the woman you love? Maybe you two thought that a divorce was the right approach or perhaps you believed that giving in to her request to separate would result in you two eventually finding your way back to one another. Unfortunately, up to this point, none of that has happened. Your wife wants little to do with you and your certain that there's little you can do to change that. You're wrong.
Before you decide that you have to give up on your wife for good you have to think about how much she loved you at one time. It wasn't always this difficult. When you two first met, she couldn't get enough of you, she gladly accepted your marriage proposal and she was happy and satisfied with the marriage for years. You can recapture that again if you put some effort into it and show your wife that you still believe, deep within your heart, that she's the woman for you.
Begin by telling her how deeply sorry you are that the marriage failed. You may not be fully or even partially responsible for the split, in your eyes, but your wife may see it very differently. Sadly, many couples never discuss their broken marriage until after the fact and once they do they both realize that they contributed to the decline of the emotional bond without even realizing it. Make it clear to your wife that you regret that the marriage failed and that you still have feelings for her. At this point, depending on the state of your relationship right now, it may not be prudent to tell your wife that you can't live without her. That may be putting too much pressure on her which is something you absolutely don't want to be doing. Most men don't fully understand the right approach they need to take to rebuild their failed marriage. They think that if they present their wife with flowers or gifts that everything that happened in the past will be forgotten. That's not the approach that you want to take. Right now your greatest ally is insight. Insight into what your wife needs and wants from you. It's actually very different than what you may think she needs or wants.
Making your wife love you again and want to be with you is very possible. In fact, you can have a stronger, more loving and closer marriage than you ever thought possible. The key is learning what specific triggers you need to press within your wife's heart and mind to get her to need you again just as much as you need her.